A year of the Spitfyre Phoenix

Have you ever seen a snake slither?  I saw one for the first time ever, last week. It was a pretty fascinating sight.  I was surprised by how fast they move when they're really anxious to get going.  And when this one did start moving, it was hard to tell exactly which direction it wanted …

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Time Capsule: the first year (sort of) post-narcissism

It feels like I've failed, but I've succeeded. It also feels like I've succeeded, but I've failed. On the one hand, I have successfully extricated my heart and its emotions from all of the pathological narcissists / psychopaths in my life.  The peptide bonds and my addiction to them have been broken.  Although the divorce …

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