The importance of self-honesty

I've mentioned before that I've found it incredibly helpful, at least in hindsight, to have been honest with myself, and today I want to expand on that.  Of course, "hindsight" is the operative term, for I didn't have (take) the time to go back over  my journals until much later, after the complete dissolution of …

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More red flags – the things you find yourself doing

It may seem monotonous, even overkill, to keep writing about red flags, but I'm feeling the need to do it anyway.  Maybe it's part of my healing process, the stage where you need to reflect, which might appear to some to be code for analyzing, ruminating, justifying...but to me feels more like reminding oneself of …

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